I can’t get over the fact that there seems to be 2 complete sets of rules,1 for men and 1 for women.
Well,at least in some men’s minds.
It seems some men think what ever a man does is fine,no matter what it is.
If he so minds to cheat on us women he is just being a man and he thinks that’s fine.
But,By Golly let a woman even let him think she is cheating and wow..Does he ever come unglued.
If a man is jumping from bed to bed he gets pats on the back and is told what a stud he is,if a woman does the same she is a slut or a whore,excuse me but if it weren’t for those studs then those women couldn’t now could they ?
And what would all those men do if all women one day said no ,no more will a man crawl in my bed tonight and go brag tomorrow to his buddies ..and call me names.
What if women stopped what men called putting out ?
What would this kind man do ?
How about those married cheating men do ? who would they cheat with then ?
U see ,I see it this way if a man wants to sleep (jump in bed) with a woman he should be willing to marry her,and if he is married then by golly he should find he fun at home where he vowed to.
He don’t want a woman that does that why then should a woman want a man that does that ? Why does he even think she should ?
Some of them say well U changed well Yes life changes people every day,When some one gets married they should change. They should show they woman/man in every way they can every day they love them.And that means being faithful and open and honest with them.Listen to them with their heart as well as their ears.No women don’t always want U to fix a problem for them just care enough to listen to them even if they just want to vent about something just as a woman should be willing to do the same.And neither should go tell anyone what they talk about what is between a husband and wife is just that and no matter how good a friend is they should never be apart of UR marriage and when U repeat what U talk about or what is going on between the 2 of U well ,UR bring them into UR marriage.
Keeping what is UR’S and UR mates between the 2 of U is important ,it helps both of U to know for one to truth each other and it keeps others from being able to cause problems for U by giving their 2 cents worth.U don’t need others telling U what U already know in UR heart,if U love UR Mate then sit down and talk about what is happening between U,find a answer with out fussing and calling names,or repeating what someone out side told U.Love one another enough to respect them.Talk to each other/listen to don’t close them off just because U disagree with what they have to say about how they feel.U may not intend to hurt anyone more so the person UR in love with /love but we are human and do at times,never feel it brings U down in any way to say I’m sorry if U hurt anyone not meaning to.Life is to short to lose the one person U love because U can’t say I’m sorry Please forgive me.But,on the same note Life is to short to live life with some one U don’t love or U know don’t love U.So,be very sure UR in love when U say I do,and that they R in love with U.
Love can be wonderful if both people are really in love with each other..
Don’t just assume anything,know it before U act on it,that goes for many things in life.
Well,I need to get off here and get some food in my tummy lol
And get ready to go to work in a little while.
Have a wonderful one
Take care every one