I have been sitting here thinking about some people I know.
They seem to need other people to tell them what to do and or think.
As if they don’t have a mind of their own to think with.
Everything they do they have to tell someone else and ask what they think.
And if not asking them they tell them, what they think or feel and guess what they act on what they were told as if they had no mind of their on.
I don’t get it why do they do that ?
I don’t understand ,I have thought for myself most of my life,did I make mistakes yes,I’m Human .But,I made my own Mistakes.I have noone to blame but myself for my Mistake because ,I didn’t go tell someone else or talk to someone else about what I had in mind or what I was going to do.I made up my own mind what I was going to do and then did just what I wanted to not what someone else though I should do.I feel everyone would be much better off if they learned to think for themselves.
Yes,they will make mistakes,every one that is a human will,that’s life.We learn and grow from our mistakes,you would think after making the mistake of listening to others they would learn not to listen to others,you/they are the ones that have to live their life not someone else.
If I decide to do something it’s my life that is affected no one else’s .
But,why would I let anyone decide for me what I will do with my life ? That to me isn’t even smart.
Let’s say a man is in love with a woman and wants to marry her,why would he go even to his best friend and ask him want he thought about it ? Isn’t the man marrying her the one going to live with her ? Isn’t he the one in love with her ? Why then ask anyone what they think.
And when someone tells me they love someone , watch them so as to know if they really do.
You see actions speak louder than words,I feel if someone needs to ask anyone what they think and just because that someone says to then ,I think she is just wanting something from you,I mean to use you,and then that someone takes that to heart and does what is expected of him to do,walks away form the person he /she claimed to be in love with then no they never ever was in love and did just what they should have walked away.But,if they look at that person and say to them no way,she /he isn’t like that then yes they really are in love and should marry.you see actions speaks loud and clear.
Never allow what someone else thinks control who you are.Think for yourselves and be who you are,not what someone else thinks you should be.
Choose your friends wisely,If a person what’s you to do anything you know isn’t right run as fast as you can they are not a friend,they are asking you to do something wrong.
Think for yourself don’t mess up your life because anyone says they are your friend yet wants you to do something you know you shouldn’t.No matter what it is.I think that everyone has a heart and mind and I think we all should use them for the better of the world as well as for our own life.
Some of use make the mistake of judging others because they don’t have what we do or live as we do.That causes us to lose a lot of friends.No one will ever be the same as we are,and should never be judged for that fact.Yet,we all must think for ourselves,so I as,I say these things I also want you to think for yourselves.If you think what I have said makes since great,but if not then so be it.I only have the question why does some people need others to tell them what to do or think instead of thinking for themselves ? I think everyone was given a heart and brain for a reason,to think and feel for themselves.Not to use their ears to hear someone else to tell them what to think and feel.
Anyway,I hope someone gets something out of my question and thoughts.It has helped me by just putting the question and my thoughts out there.
Have a wonderful day ,every one